it is fabulous to be 41... and have your ex-husband standing at the door looking at you like you are a completely different person. that stupid ass asked me of I wanted to have sex with him, told him hell no, he would squish me! hahaha what a loooooser!
I flew cross country on my birthday yesterday, and I had a very nice day. no traveling gliches.
One of the things that I have noticed over time is that the less I care about other's opinions, the more they try hard to get in my good one.
I have gotten mixed reviews, my daughter is not comfortable with my new size, but her boyfriend is. gives him hope that she will start to loose instead of gaining.
but I did not do it for the ex, or for the kid, I did it for me.